November 27, 2024 – Another Day of Performances Nearing the Kidnapping of February 17, 2025.
She handed our son a birthday card he couldn’t read. It was written in cursive.
Adri’el had just turned five. He was still learning to sound out basic printed words. We never taught him cursive. He couldn’t read a single sentence in that card. And yet, she filled it with dramatic declarations like:
“You will forever be the best gift in my life… Please forgive Mama… I promise you’ll always have my love, hugs, and support.” “We’ll create unforgettable memories together…” “I’m committed to being the best Mama in the world.”
It sounds beautiful, if you don’t know the truth.
But I do.
Because just 82 days later, on February 17, 2025, that same “Mama” took Adri’el behind my back while I was moving our things to a new home. No warning. No court order. No contact since. No unforgettable memories, except for the trauma she left behind.
✂️ A Pattern of Apology Without Action
This card wasn’t for our son. It was for herself. Or for her audience. Or for the record, so she could later say: “See? I tried. I cared.”
But the truth is, by that point:
She had already abandoned Adri’el for over a month back in April 2024.
She had admitted in writing that her presence was emotionally damaging to him and that she should “stay away” because she couldn’t stop being angry.
She had left our home for nights out, vacations, crochet “classes,” and side relationships while our child stayed behind, sometimes at her mother’s, most times with me.
She had borrowed money under false pretenses during a motorcycle accident, using her lovers and friends, while leaving our family to struggle without answers.
But on paper—in that birthday card—she became the perfect mother. A “learned” woman. A “changed” soul. One who writes in cursive, promising lifelong hugs to a child who just wanted her presence, not her performance.
🧠Psychological Projection — and the Coming Smear
A soft prelude. A paper shield. A setup for what came next.
Because less than three months later:
She kidnapped our son with no legal basis.
She involved the DSWD and Barangay, who acted without due process.
She sat back while a man named Greg Nepho posted a smear campaign across the internet, claiming I was abusive, unfit, mentally ill, and even criminal—all unproven lies designed to cover her escape.
And not one single agency asked me for my side. Not one court order. Not one hearing.
And still, somehow, she gets to keep using the word “Mama” like she earned it.
⚖️ Words vs. Reality
This card is evidence.
Not of love.
Not of maternal growth.
But of manipulation, preparation, and deception.
If you meant the words, Anngeneth, you would have been present. If you meant the apology, you would have returned. If you meant the promise, you would have never taken him.
Instead, you wrote a letter to a boy who couldn’t read—because you weren’t writing to him. You were writing for your future defense.
We don’t need to analyze this with PhDs or lawyers. We just need common sense.
A mother who truly changes does not:
Disappear for months.
Leave the family.
Conceal a child with no court order.
Silence a father’s rights.
She didn’t grow. She calculated. She didn’t heal. She rehearsed.
This birthday card in cursive is not a message of love. It’s a mask—and it’s slipping.
🇵🇠Bisaya: Usa Ka Cursive nga Alibi Para sa Lima Ka Tuig nga Bata
Nobyembre 27, 2024 – Usab nga adlaw sa pakitang-tao, duol na sa pagkidnap niadtong Pebrero 17, 2025.
Gihatagan niya ug birthday card ang among anak — nga di kabalo mobasa.
Kay cursive man ang sulat.
Si Adri’el kay bag-o pa nag 5 anyos. Nagsugod pa lang siya ug basa ug mga ordinaryo nga letra. Wala namo siya tudlui ug cursive. Busa wala gyud siya kasabot bisan usa ka sentence sa card. Pero gisulod ni Anna ang card ug mga linya sama sa:
“Ikaw ang pinakadakong gasa sa akong kinabuhi… Pasayloa si Mama… Gisaad ko nga kanunay ko nimo gugmaon, gakson, ug suportahan.” “Maghimo ta ug mga memorable nga moments…” “Maningkamot ko nga mahimong best Mama sa kalibutan.”
Nindot paminawon — kung wala ka kahibalo sa tinuod.
Pero ako kahibalo.
Tungod kay 82 ka adlaw human niini, Pebrero 17, 2025, gikuha niya si Adri’el sa likod sa akong likod samtang nagbalhin mi ug balay. Walay pasidaan. Walay korte. Walay contact hangtod karon. Walay memories — kundili kasakit nga iyang gibiyaan.
✂️ Pasaylo Pero Walay Buhat
Dili ni para sa among anak ang card. Para ni sa iyang kaugalingon. O para sa audience. O para sa record — aron ingnon sa unahan: “Tan-awa, nitry ko. Nagpakabana ko.”
Pero ang tinuod:
Gibiyaan na niya si Adri’el sulod sa kapin usa ka buwan atong Abril 2024.
Misulti siya nga ang iyang presensya makadaut sa emosyon ni Adri’el, ug mas maayo nga molayo siya.
Gibiyaan niya ang among panimalay para sa mga lakaw, bakasyon, crochet class, ug laing lalaki.
Nanghulam siya ug kwarta pinaagi sa bakak human sa aksidente sa motor — nagpabilin kaming pamilya nga naglisod.
Apan sa papel — sa birthday card — gipakita nga siya ang “maayong Mama.” Nga siya miuswag, nga siya nagbag-o, nga siya kabalo mag-cursive ug magpaka-inahan. Pero ang bata gusto ra man unta ug Mama nga naa — dili Mama nga manulti lang.
Intro lang to — papel nga tabon — andam para sa sunod buhat.
Kay sa wala pa ka-3 ka buwan:
GIKIDNAP niya among anak.
Gidala ang DSWD ug Barangay — nga wala’y due process.
Naglingkod lang siya samtang si Greg Nepho nag-post ug mga bakak online — nagsulti nga abusado ko, buang, ex-convict — puro pulos bakak aron tabunan ang iyang kalagmitan.
Walay agency nga nangutana nako. Walay korte. Walay due process.
Pero hangtod karon, nagpabilin gihapon ang pagtawag niya sa iyang kaugalingon nga “Mama.”
⚖️ Pulong vs. Tinuod
Kini nga card — ebidensya.
Dili ebidensya sa gugma. Dili ebidensya sa pagbag-o.
Kundili ebidensya sa panikas, pagpangandam, ug pagpaka-hipokrito.
Kung tinuod ka, Anngeneth, — naa unta ka. — Nibalik unta ka. — Wala unta nimo siya kuhaa.
Pero imo man siya gisulatan og card nga di niya mabasa, kay wala ka nagsulat para niya — nagsulat ka para protektahan ang imong kaugalingon sa umalabot.
Dili kinahanglan abogado para makasabot ani. Common sense ra.
Ang tinud-anay nga Mama: — Dili magpawala sulod sa bulan. — Dili mobiya sa pamilya. — Dili magtago sa bata nga walay order sa korte. — Dili mokupot sa katungod sa amahan.
Wala siya nitubo — siya nagplano. Wala siya nangayo’g pasaylo — siya nag-rehearse.
Ang birthday card nga cursive — dili mensahe sa gugma. Kini usa ka maskara — ug karon, nanghuwad na.
